The sheer pleasure of summer bliss in a sea of winter men at Fanelli’s Café in Soho.

A dear friend from Jersey City took me to the beloved Fanelli Café on an early trip to New York. It was nighttime and glowing spots of candlelight lit the winter-dark café. Mike told me stories about the café, leaning close over the red-checked tablecloth. We naturally progressed to sharing stories of our own history, drinking chianti and feeling part of the magic stretching back to 1847 when a grocery store opened in a wooden building at this location.

The original structure at 94 Prince Street was replaced with brick in 1857. There have been corner stores serving liquor, saloons, taverns, and “porter houses”—so called because they served a style of beer called porter—on this spot continuously since 1847. In 1922, Michael Fanelli arrived and christened the café with his family name. Fanelli’s legitimately makes the claim that it’s the second-oldest watering hole in NYC.

The Fanelli family sold the business to Hans Noe after 60 years, and now Noe’s son Sasha operates it. Noe treasures New York history and retained the name and the red neon sign that’s beckoned plenty of weary workers and hungry artists in from the cold. Fanelli’s has a well-researched history that cites various city records and published narratives to establish its claim. In comparison, the Bridge Café opened in 1794, but is now closed. Pete’s Tavern dates from 1864 and McSorley’s Ale House from 1854. The Ear Inn is NYC’s oldest bar, continuously serving since 1817.

Fanelli’s operated as a speakeasy during Prohibition, and became a favorite of artists and beat poets in the sixties, when Paula Cooper had a gallery nearby. Fanelli’s was a popular place to hang out before and after performances at the gallery, though this was subject to Mike Fanelli’s unpredictable whims regarding closing time. Bartender Bob Bozic was an attraction from 1990 until he retired in 2016. “Fanelli’s is what people expect a bar in New York to be like,” Mr. Bozic said, “and I’m what they expect a bartender to be like.” According to the Times’s Alex Vadukul, Bob was often rude—refusing to making cocktails that required more than two ingredients—but he’d pour you a free drink for answering his trivia questions. Plus he’d hit on your girlfriend!

This romantic dress in shades of rosy orange creamsicle always evokes bliss for me. When I wear it, I feel part of the whirling merry-go-round of life with all its flashing colors—the pleasure of immersing fully into life that New York demands of us. The bustle of Soho on a Saturday is Immersion 101, with artists and artisans selling their wares on the sidewalk and the crowds strolling by, happy to have a day off to savor the scene. Here’s a guy sipping his beer at Fanelli’s primo outdoor table, with his stylin’ dog wearing a fine coat with a pocket and turned-up collar. The guys are catwalking their pricey hip-casual duds and superhot hairstyles. Life is a carousel, old chum. Jump on the carousel!

Part of this article also appeared in The Village Sun.

Style Notes

• Swirly orange creamsicle dress with rosy watercolor flowers and draped neckline.The Bay, Vancouver BC.
• Jimmy Choo silver platform sling-back sandals. Jimmy Choo sample sale, 123 West 18th Street.
• Pink pearl drop earrings with silver art deco detailing. Penny Whillans Designs. Victoria, BC.
• Silver bangle with double row of tiny rhinestones. Starlin New York, 206 E. 6th Street.
• Mademoiselle Mirabelle black faux fur coat with Lorax-esque orange and white trim. Mademoiselle Mirabelle, 330 Bleecker Street (now closed).

Happy Songs

Celebração à vida – Carioca, Chandra e Edgar (Celebration)

Body Parts – Gabrielle Roth (Five rhythms warm-up) “Your arms are messengers of your heart”

On the Way, We Met Johnathan Hallgrey

As we strolled along Prince Street on our way to Fanelli’s, we encountered Johnathan Hallgrey, delightful artist and author of Sir Thomas Tattletale Equestrian Counting Book and The Enchanted Kingdom of Sir Thomas Tattletale. Learn about his charming art and books on his website. Meeting Johnathan made our day all the more special. This is what New York is all about—meeting talented people with quirky style everywhere you go!